The definition of haven is: ha·ven /ˈheɪvən/ Show Spelled[hey-vuhn] Show IPA –noun 1.a harbor or port. 2.any place of shelter and safety; refuge; asylum. I am turning my mirror on myself. I am examining my strengths and flaws. I am refining myself, I am growing. I want to be a better man. I want to be a shelter, a safe port in the storm. I am tired of being less than I am capable of being.